My cousins wedding

One of my cousins got married recently. It was a beautiful wedding....well based on the facebook photos.

The family were not invited to the civil ceremony and the dinner that followed afterwards at the winery.

The family have been invited seperately to another dinner event.

Apparently certain extended family members were upset that the familys traditional crap wasnt done first.

Firstly - i think this family member is an ass. It's not about you, it's about your cousin who got married. Why don't you use your thick head and ask yourself... gzz why was this event done separately or why did it happen to be before the family stuff?

It could be for a bunch of reasons like:
1. Maybe that day want auspicious.
2. Couldn't get the venue booked
3. Venue too small
4. Limited funds.

In fact, it doesn't matter... 2 people can do whatever the hell they want and you should just be happy about it, that your younger cousin is even getting married because they have found their happily ever after.

But no... its about them, how they feel  offended that the family wasnt put first. Offended that this cousin who got married had put her friends and immediate family first.

But im sorry, this is actually coming from another person who hasnt been around when times were tough, financially helped them out, or just been there.

I know they say that blood is thicker than water but when you have a lot of cousins because our ancestors and the like fked liked bunnies- at then end of the day- it will always boil down to...

"What have you done for me lately" famous words uttered by eddie murphy.

And I can seriously say the cousin that made this selfish observation has done nothing but be a judgemental bitch.

Yup i said it, thought it..

And i dont give a shit.

And this is why I dont attend all the other family functions.
Why should i waste my time on selfish people?